When you think of a wish, don't think of it as black or white magic and definitely don't think of it as the drive thru window for all your hopes and desires. They are however, sometimes a necessity to connect you with the world around you, especially when you feel you've loss connection to your purpose in life. Here, I will teach you how to make wishes come true.

There are two parts in getting a wish to come true. One is the person making the wish, the other is the invisible eyes and ears listening to our gripes and sorrows. Once a wish is made all it takes is an awareness of the wisher to open his or her eyes to see what starts to fall into place.

Do remember that when a wish does come true the spirit (angels or gods) alone did not have a total hand in making it come into fruition. The spirit can only nudge circumstance, and perhaps persuade thoughts. However, it is the responsibility of the wisher to take advantage of the momentary open doors. Failure to do so, will result in the wishes not coming true. Most of the time, it's the lack of understanding how a wish works, that separates those who always seem to get what they want and those who remain disillusioned and disappointed. This is why wishes for world peace never comes true, and prayers for other people to get better has a 50/50 chance of happening. The wisher has to take action once the door opens.

Next time you make a wish, pay very close attention to events that flow in your favor. You may or may not be able to grasp onto the opportunities that present its self to you due to the person you've become or haven't become.

For instance, have you treated others negatively thus unnecessarily creating unforeseen roadblocks in your current or future situation? Have you stopped listening to your intuition due to your insecurities and fears? Do you lack the energy and drive to even try? Are you closed minded to ideas and opportunities? It's usually our negative patterns that prevent us from seeing what is happening around us thus preventing us from getting what we desire.

Sometimes our negativity is due to other people's ill wishes on us, thus keeping us from feeling the positive light. Soon after the negative spirits have left we might constantly feel their presence plague us even though they have long gone.

This is why prayers and cleansing rituals are required from time to time. For those scientific rational folks, think of a prayer as a way to reprogram you mind by chanting positive hopes and thoughts over and over, day after day. After all, if you're constantly feeling negative, imagine how many years it took you to become the person that you are and how many times you chanted the same negative thought about yourself.

A ritual is required as a way to act on that thought. Sometimes we can't act on a thought because no one showed us how to succeed at it. So the first step is to create an official ritual with the spirit guide of your choice, be it Jesus, Buddha, or who ever. Then make sure that every day you light an incense to make a wish or goal. The second step is to cross off at least one task that needs to be done to get to that goal.

Trust that the spirit will open doors. Be aware of the signs and validation that he or she is hearing you. The doors that open may not be a direct door, but it might be an alternative unconventional path. Follow the flow of life like smoke from the incense. Realize that the smoke could never push any door open, but it will get you through never the less. Finally you'll know if there is an immediate answer to your wish if the ashes curl.

Once you get really connect, be aware that some really interesting stuff will start showing itself, you may even freak out a bit.